{"id":503,"date":"2017-12-18T22:17:15","date_gmt":"2017-12-18T22:17:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/66.147.244.136\/~raveliu7\/new\/?p=503"},"modified":"2018-09-08T20:24:55","modified_gmt":"2018-09-08T20:24:55","slug":"pity-parties","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iamkirsteng.com\/new\/pity-parties\/","title":{"rendered":"The pity parties are over"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>They don&#8217;t serve champagne at pity parties. &#8220;The difference between successful people and others is how long they spend time feeling sorry for themselves.&#8221;- Barbara Corcoran<\/p>\n<p>I must admit I have had a few sad days, weeks, months, hell even years. However, I had to learn how to balance my emotions.<\/p>\n<p>Spending too much time being overwhelm, sad, and even having those extended Debbie Downer days won&#8217;t get anything accomplished. For days when I&#8217;m having a moment, I grant myself a 15-minute pity party.<\/p>\n<p>During this party, I am usually dancing or working out. I also like listening to something inspirational or positive to help me get all of my sad emotions out. I don&#8217;t use this time to vent. Sometimes venting will get the best of me and then my pity party will get extended.<\/p>\n<p>For many, this pity party may seem extreme, but it has been the best method for me especially after an extended period of not getting shit done.<\/p>\n<p>Well Dolls, the DJ has just announced our 15-minute &#8220;Pity Party&#8221; is coming to an end, so whatever you need to get out your system, get it out NOW. No more sad shit, let&#8217;s boss up. 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